This is the text of the derasha I delivered on Shabbat:
I probably started collecting baseball cards somewhere around the time I was in the third grade.
I probably started collecting baseball cards somewhere around the time I was in the third grade.
Kids would bring in their baseball cards and
excitedly talk about their rarity, value and the all-important stats. Listening to these conversations around the
lunch table I came to the conclusion that these cardboard homages to the
baseball gods would be my ticket to social grace.
I told my father I
wanted baseball cards. Ever resourceful, he called up his friend who had a son
who sold baseball cards. Perfect. He bought me an entire set—Topps brand, every
card, rookies and all. I studied them. I sorted them neatly into plastic
holders and organized them in binders. I organized them alphabetically; I
organized them by team; I probably even organized them by the color of their
jerseys. I think you get the point: I really enjoyed organizing them.
I looked at the
backs of the cards over and over again trying to make sense of all the numbers—to
internalize the wisdom that could gain me entry into that all important
lunchroom conversation…to no avail. I enjoyed baseball cards the way a
librarian might enjoy the challenge of cataloging books written in some foreign
language he doesn’t speak.
The problem—as you might have guessed by now—was I
had actually never watched a game.
Needless to say, I never was able to participate
in the great conversation of the third grade.
This story of
my youthful hobby illustrates two very important psychological concepts that
can unlock one of the central messages of this week’s Torah reading: ambition
and idealization.
At first glance
we might say that my ambition was to collect baseball cards, but that would be
incorrect. My ambition was to be one of
the gang. The difficulty emerged due to
what’s called idealization. I idealized
the kids who could talk about baseball cards.
They were the cool kids. My
ambition became shaped by my idealization.
Youth is
characterized by idealization—both for the good and for the bad. Maturity is characterized by a shift from
idealization to realistic ideals. In this
case, when I was older I was able to replace my idealization of the cool kids
with an ideal of what it means to be a good friend.
Now, let us
turn to the Parasha.
Parashat Behar
(Leviticus 25:2-5) sets forth the commandment of shemittah:
When
you enter the land that I assign you, the land shall observe a sabbath of the
Lord. Six years you may sow your field and six years you may prune your
vineyard and gather in the yield. But in the seventh year the land shall have a
sabbath of complete rest, a sabbath of the Lord... it shall be a year of
complete rest for the land.
The punishment
for failure to observe the commandments of shemittah appears
later, in Parashat Behukotai (Lev. 26:32-35):
I
will make the land desolate, so that your enemies who settle in it shall be
appalled by it. And you I will scatter among the nations, and I will unsheath
the sword against you. Your land shall become a desolation and your cities a
ruin. Then shall the land make up for its sabbath years throughout the time
that it is desolate and you are in the land of your enemies; then shall the
land rest and make up for its sabbath years. Throughout the time that it is
desolate, it shall observe the rest that it did not observe in your sabbath
years while you were dwelling upon it.
It is puzzling that our exile and the desolation of the land are so
bound up with the mitzvah of Shemitta.
Why such an extreme punishment? Why
is violating Shemitta such a horrible sin?
Of course, we must uncover: What is the purpose of Shemitta?
The Rambam gives two reasons.
And I quote:
As to the mitzvot concerning
Shemitta and Yovel some of them teach us sympathy with our fellow-men, and
promote the well-being of mankind; for in reference to these laws it is stated
in the Torah, "That the poor of your people may eat" (Exod. xxiii.
11); and besides, the land will also increase its produce and improve when it
remains fallow for some time.
His first reason is easy to understand. However, his suggestion that leaving one’s
land fallow for a year actually has material benefits—that this rest period can
reinvigorate the land and actually increase one’s future yield is surprising. Rambam’s suggestion, unsurprisingly, raised some
eyebrows amongst some later commentaries: If Shemitta actually benefits the
owner of the field, then why is the punishment so severe for violating this
mitzvah? Isn’t he, in a sense, punishing
himself?
This is where our concepts of ambition and idealization can help us
out.
We all have an ambition to be productive—that’s good. The problems creep in when we start measuring
the success of our ambitions through idealization: by comparing ourselves to
other people and turning our work into a competition.
We want to provide for our families. We want our children to go to good
schools. We want to live in comfort. But,
when we start to compare ourselves to others we start to lose focus and our
ambitions become unmanageable. We start
putting in extra hours at the office to get that bonus. We decide that our clothes are not nice
enough, our house is not fancy enough, our gardens are not lush enough.
Life can easily become a never-ending rat-race which has no real
meaning.
Shemitta is the Torah’s way of telling us, “hold on, take stock,
take a moment to reflect.” Life is not a
competition—unlock the gates of your fields so “that
the poor of your people may eat!”
It might, as the Rambam writes, actually be better to stop working
so hard. It might be better for our
fields to lay fallow for a year, but our over-inflated ambition cannot stand
for idle hands. We must stay busy, for
if we do not stay busy what are we? We
often become blind to the fact that it might actually benefit us in the end if
we just take some time off.
The haftorah makes this message resoundingly clear:
אָר֤וּר הַגֶּ֨בֶר֙ אֲשֶׁ֣ר יִבְטַ֣ח בָּֽאָדָ֔ם וְשָׂ֥ם
בָּשָׂ֖ר זְרֹע֑וֹ וּמִן־ה' יָס֥וּר לִבּֽוֹ
Cursed is the one who
trusts in man, and finds his strength in flesh, and whose heart turns away from
the Lord.
Rashi explains, the one who trusts in man is the
one
who says “I
will sow during the seventh year and I will eat” placing his trust in his plowing and his harvest.
Shemitta is the great stabilizer of the Jewish people. It puts in check our tendency to idealize (and
ultimately idolize) man’s power. This is
the core value of the Jewish people—to put our trust in no man—to idolize no
being and to only accept the majesty of the matzui rishon—the borei
Olam—the true source of all Being.
As the haftorah continues:
בָּר֣וּךְ הַגֶּ֔בֶר אֲשֶׁ֥ר יִבְטַ֖ח בַּֽה' וְהָיָ֥ה ה'
מִבְטַחֽוֹ׃
וְהָיָ֞ה כְּעֵ֣ץ ׀ שָׁת֣וּל עַל־מַ֗יִם וְעַל־יוּבַל֙
יְשַׁלַּ֣ח שָֽׁרָשָׁ֔יו וְלֹ֤א ירא (יִרְאֶה֙) כִּי־יָ֣בֹא חֹ֔ם וְהָיָ֥ה
עָלֵ֖הוּ רַֽעֲנָ֑ן וּבִשְׁנַ֤ת בַּצֹּ֨רֶת֙ לֹ֣א יִדְאָ֔ג וְלֹ֥א יָמִ֖ישׁ
מֵֽעֲשׂ֥וֹת פֶּֽרִי׃
Blessed
is the man who trusts in the Lord; the Lord shall be his trust.
For he
shall be like a tree planted by the water, and by a rivulet spreads its roots,
and will not see when heat comes, and its leaves shall be green, and in the
year of drought will not be anxious, neither shall it cease from bearing fruit.
To sum it up: Every once in a while take some time off from work—a
Sabbatical—pour yourself a nice cup of coffee (or tea) and reflect. With the right mixture of humor and wisdom
you’ll be a lot happier.
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